I fell in love with a man who as a small child had had an accident with a lead toy. It was a soldier and its toy bayonet went into my ex-boyfriend's lower eyelid. He had it removed. But some lead paint remained and stained his eye lid. It's like a little blue tattoo and it will be with him forever. It makes him look dodgy, which I think he likes. I was drawn to him by this mark and asked him about it. One thing led to another.